The history of the Jewish unveiling ceremony dates back to biblical times when Jacob marked the grave of his beloved wife, Rachel. Today, this tradition continues, with the unveiling indicating that a monument, “matzeivah”, has been set at the graveside. Over time, Jewish families have established a dedication ceremony to commemorate the deceased.
Monuments are designed to tell the story of the individual who passed and may reflect the Jewish lineage of the person who passed. For example, a menorah may be engraved on the monument for a woman, while a pitcher of water may be engraved for a man who was a Levite or Levi, one of the twelve tribes of Israel. Additional symbols and their explanations may be found below.
Jewish Memorial Symbols and Their Meaning
Hands with forefingers and thumbs touching - This is the symbol for a “Kohen” or “Kohanim” (plural), who are the high priests in Judaism. The touching of the forefingers and thumbs symbolizes the hands arranged for the Priestly Blessing. Traditionally, Kohanim status is determined by paternal lineage, exclusively for men.
Holocaust Symbol - A symbol for Holocaust Survivors may be engraved or affixed to the monument.
Jewish Star - Also known as a Magen David, a Jewish star is the universal symbol for the Jewish people, and its meaning provides a sense of comfort and connection for the Jewish people.
Menorah - The Menorah is typically engraved on the memorial for a female, signifying their traditional role in the home.
Shabbat Candles - Shabbat or Sabbath candles are another symbol engraved to signify the traditional role of a female in the home.
Water Pitcher - The water pitcher (sometimes accompanied by a bowl) is engraved on the monument when the deceased was a Levite (also known as “Levi”) and symbolizes their role of washing the hands of Kohanim in the temple. Traditionally, Levite status is determined by paternal lineage, exclusively for men.
Additional Jewish monument symbols may include the eternal flame, the Ten Commandments, the Torah, and the Tree of Life.
