The history of the Jewish unveiling ceremony dates back to biblical times when Jacob marked the grave of his beloved wife, Rachel. Today, this tradition continues, with the unveiling indicating that a monument, “matzeivah”, has been set at the graveside. Over time, Jewish families have established a dedication ceremony to commemorate the deceased.
The ceremony begins with a cheesecloth (or other cloth) draped over the monument, which is removed to "unveil" it to the family. During the brief service, prayers and psalms such as El Malei Rachamim, the Mourner's Kaddish, and Psalm 23 may be recited. Eulogies or poems may also be shared and customarily, small rocks are placed atop the monument or on its base.
Although there is no prescribed timeframe, the unveiling ceremony customarily takes place eleven to twelve months following the interment or burial. Some Jewish families erect the monument 30 days after the passing, which is the end of Sheloshim, while others will do so after the completion of Kaddish at 11 months or to mark the first Yahrzeit at 12 months. Please do not hesitate to contact the Jewish Unveilings team with any questions.
